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i need to get a break too! Does that mean i am a bad mother or love my kids any less....i think not, we all deserve a little me time women and men both. So why is that some men think that just cuz we r the mothers we cant have a single moment of sanity...like a hot bubble bath, a night out for coffee with a friend, 1/2 an hour to exercise? i guess its just plain culture and that they see us as the care giver because we carried the child and some provide the child with the food....geesh, i mean we r parents for a reason, like a team..when one gets tired the other takes over....this way the parenting feels like a journey together instead of a one sided job. But maybe fo us women who have this type of situation, we are only making it worse...men need to help and be considerate of the things we do as a mom........it truly is a real job...we arent asking them to do all that we do, just lend a supportive hand and know that we get tired too. Maybe we need to show them this instead of ruining our bodies, mental state and moods........its time to get creative and think of ways to encourage these men to repect us and have moe of a relationship with the kids....here's hoping!!!!(:(:(:

It's been 2 years almost!! I cannot believe my lil boy will be 2 in like a month!!(: Time is going by sooo fast and no matter how stressful things get and how much he tests me, i cannot be happier if he is the only blessing i will ever recieve. He is the only blessing i need! What a strong little boy he is and he's proved that straight from the womb!! May God bless you and protect you my little boy, love your mamma!(: Cant wait to put up your 2 year pic soon!!!(:

To be or not to be?.........

Religion is an everyday thought of mine...always has been actually. I've always considered myself to be a very spiritual person, constantly giving my thoughts to a higher entity. I have high hopes and convictions that this life is more than an everyday existence and that it has a purpose beyond what we can imagine.......yet even tho i believe all of this, i am always letting the actions of others control what stance i take and influence my declarations on what religion i have chosen or will choose. I pray i can see religion for what it is and the good that God has declared each person to do, and not by who chooses to do good or bad in its name........God knows my heart and will guide me in the right way as i feel He has always done!(: